THE FUTURE OF LENOIR-RHYNE AS A CHRISTIAN COLLEGE

Benne Discussion – Position Paper

David J. Ludwig

 

Lenoir-Rhyne exists within a culture and will always reflect aspects of the current age.  As the culture changes, our college must change to stay related to the culture; yet bring the changeless message of the gospel to this new age. This is always a creative tension and both concerns must constantly be expressed.  But in this process, there are three dangers:

1.      The first danger is to become enmeshed with the culture, adapting its values and fighting the political battles of the era in the attempt to stay relevant;

2.      The second danger is to detach from the culture, resist necessary changes in philosophy and style in an attempt to keep the changeless message from getting contaminated;

3.      The third danger is to see those who are either struggling to become relevant or to guard the purity of the faith as the enemy, thus fighting the wrong battles.

 

The correct approach is to hold the concerns for relevance and faithfulness in creative tension, allowing appropriate changes to occur under the prayerful guidance of the Holy Spirit.

 

The changes that our college has faced within the past 50 years are staggering.  The sociological realities are apparent.  Loyalty to the college has broken down and a “supermarket” mentality has emerged: Students looking for a college that meets their needs.  Christian colleges attempting to be relevant are in danger of losing their identity and those attempting to stay closely identified with the Christian faith are in danger of losing the student market.

 

The philosophic changes of our culture are even more staggering.  We have gone from a general acceptance of creation and absolute moral standards to a general acceptance of evolutionary theory and relative moral standards.  Sin has been re-defined from going against God’s will to damaging someone’s self-esteem.  Diversity is the preferred concept, with the added twist that acceptance of others means that their beliefs and life-styles are just as valid as your own.  The logic driving the ideology of our culture is “individual rights” - that each person has the right to adapt to the environment as he or she chooses.  Christian colleges attempting to adapt to this way of thinking are in danger of becoming too “inclusive” and inoffensive; but those rejecting this ideology by focusing on the absolutes of faith are in danger of becoming too rigid and exclusive.

 

So what are the proper battles for the college to fight?  At every level of the college, there should be a passion for knowing and appreciating current thinking…and a passion for holding this in creative tension with the basic tenants of the Christian faith, so that “wholeness of personality… are best discerned from the perspective of Christian faith.” [from L-R Mission Statement].

 

The following is an example of this process at work in the field of psychology.  One of the major, current approaches to family therapy is Bowen’s Family System Theory.  How should this theory be approached in the classroom here at Lenoir-Rhyne???

 

 

 

Family System Theory (Bowen)-An Extended Analysis

 

Relationships Between Family Members

 

Insights:

When two people marry, they develop emotional patterns between them based on levels of differentiation from their families of origin. The two selves often merge into a common self, an emotional system driven (as are all emotional systems) by

two forces: separateness and closeness. If either force is

feared, the reaction will be an anxiety that causes relational

dysfunction such as triangulation, marital conflict, sickness,

and projection of the anxiety on the children.

Help for such dysfunctional family systems comes from the process of self-differentiation, allowing the person to become a responsive self rather than a reactive self. In this way,

one of more family members can gradually change the family

system over time.

 

Potential Problems:

Bowen's solutions grow out of evolutionary theory .It states

that evolution has given humans an enhanced cortex that can

establish objective control over the more reactive, emotional

areas of the brain. When a person differentiates him- or herself

from the other family member, greater objectivity is developed, and the person can function more intentionally - thus

becoming more responsive rather than reactive. But what

happens when you really do not want to change your attitude

toward a family member?

 

The Christian Corrective to the Theory:

The Christian has a deeper source of power for the self-

differentiating process. Cortical objectivity can override the emotions to some extent, but it has difficulty changing a person's

basic attitudes. This is a spiritual matter, requiring a change in

heart that occurs when Christ's love renews a loving spirit

within. This affects the spirit, the atmosphere, of the family.

 

Relationship with Self

 

Insights:

People can be categorized on a continuum according to how

their thinking and their feelings interact. At the one end, emotions dominate intellectual functions; the emotona1 reactions

contaminate the intellect. (For example, in "emotionalized right

and wrong," a person's capacity for good judgment is contaminated and is left with little self for healthy responsive behavior.) At the other end of the continuum, the intellect operates relatively autonomously, even in periods of crisis. A solid self, using logical reasoning, emerges and can take over in emotional situations - thereby lessening anxiety by extricating the self if necessary.  Over a period of time, calm use of reasoning

forms a healthy, solid self.

 

Potential Problems:

Again Bowen relies on the power of the evolved higher cortical functions to do the self -differentiating work. Fueled by

limbic-derived feelings, the person has less access to the neo-cortex. It is at this time that the neo-cortex must exercise its veto power over instinctive forces. But because of sin, knowing what is right just cannot accomplish this task (see Rom.

7:25-8:3). This veto power, even though it is the right thing

to do, will only incur rebellion.

 

The Christian Corrective to the Theory:

A deeper power within the Christian can override both emotional reactivity and cortical over-control to produce a strong

self. That power is the human spirit, when it has been strengthened and made right by the Holy Spirit. With his Spirit, this spirit can take charge of the internal processes of the person, producing appropriate self-differentiation.

 

In Summary:

One's relationship with God is the missing ingredient in

Bowen's theory .As a result, his brilliant insights into human

nature miss their deepest opportunity for overcoming dysfunction. Since there exists in his theory no external source of

power for the override process, a person's only hope is his or

her own ability .But this is doing something in order to be

something (i.e., self-differentiated).

The basic cause of reactive anxiety is sin-living without

a relationship with God. Therefore, in contrast to Bowen, the

true gift of the Christian family life professional is the mysterious power of the Gospel: That the ability to do flows from

being-in Christ. The connection with God's love comes first

and provides the awesome power for the person to "define self

and stay in touch." Identity as a child of God and the worth

that this reality gives reduces reactive anxiety. This is a gift of God, not of human effort. So, if Bowen will say "define self

and stay in touch," the Christian professional can say, "Stay in

touch with God, and self will be defined for you."